Forty-three years ago today I married Gary Morice, my childhood sweetheart, my soulmate, the man of my dreams.
On Friday evening, Nov 10, 1972, at 7:30 pm, in front of family and friends, I walked down the aisle to join this man that I loved with all my heart, and when he died in December of 2009 we had been happily married for over thirty-seven years.
Thinking back, the only thing I would change about our time together would be to have more of it, more days to say, “See you tonight, honey,” before heading to work, more nights to whisper, “I love you,” before drifting off to sleep, more years to grow old and wrinkled and gray together.
We didn’t get that, and I miss him every day. And every day I remember.
So this day, our anniversary, I thought I’d share a few pictures of us from our early years together as a young couple. And wow – were we ever young! But we were in love and we were determined to be together and in 1972, at least in 1972 in New Brunswick, Canada, wanting to be together meant getting married.
It worked out for us.
As I was going through photos last evening to choose a few for today’s post, I realized again how fortunate I was to have had a good man as a partner, and a good marriage to remember now when memories are what I have left.
I could also have chosen pictures of us as a family – with our two children we raised together, and of our family adventures and misadventures, but for today I decided, in the interests of space, to limit the photos to just a few of us as a couple, because no matter what else we were in the world – mother and father, daughter and son, brother and sister, friend – we were a couple, united together for as long a time as we had.
Good memories. Happy Anniversary, honey. See you tonight in my dreams.
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Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for stopping by!
My pleasure
You were fortunate indeed in finding a soul mate for your partner. I haven’t forgotten your kindness and friendship to me when I needed a friend. Thank you.
Thanks, Barb. That’s what friends are for. 😍
A very lovely couple indeed. I so remember those early years and remember you two as a great couple. My heart is very saddened for you today. sometime I think how wonderful it would be if the four of us could be together just one day ,so we could get reacquainted and you guys get to know Gayle. I’m sure we would have some laughs. Right now I have so mush on my mind,but always have some to think of you. Many, many HUGS.
Thanks, Mike.
I feel strongly that the four of us would have indeed shared some good times together and I’m sure we would have loved Gayle.
Sylvia, this was a beautiful testament to your loving relationship.
Thank you, Linda, for your comment. We always knew that we were meant to be together – I just wish we had been granted the chance to truly grow old with each other. But I do cherish the time we had.
I hope your day is as happy as it can be while you hold these memories in your heart! – Maureen
Thank you, Maureen. I do cherish my memories and hold them close to me.
What beautiful memories! Thank you for sharing them. Hoping you can celebrate the joy of that love today!
Thank you, Carol. I was lucky to have known the love that I did, and that’s what I tried to remember today. 💞
Been a long time since my heart was taken in two totally different directions in such a short time. Reading this and looking at the pictures and remembering how much I always admired you two and the love and respect you had for one another…filled me with a sudden sadness I didn’t expect and a flood of warm and happy emotions as well. One can only dream of a love such as this. Happy anniversary. Xo
Thank you, Tonia. I do want people to realize that life is shorter than we think and in an instant we can lose the ones we love. Somehow when that happens the small things in life become even smaller and so unimportant and what matters is how we treated the people who have gone. Love you.
♥